refactor: P0-P3 fixes, C1 cleanup, architecture diagrams, go.work upgrade

- P0-1: ProviderError type + ReportStatus for precise 401/403 detection
- P0-2: Remove -config flag from deploy/homeagent.service
- P2-1: 5s debounce on context.go Save()
- P2-2→C1: Delete output_set_channel entirely
- P2-3: Extract mediaDataURL/mediaChat helpers
- P2-4: Dedup defaultSources var
- P3: Delete dead packages (embed/tokenizer/container/snapshot)
- P3: Delete dead functions (messagesToMap, RunStageAll)
- CL: Update .gitignore, docs, Makefile, gojieba removal
- Config: Delete config/config.yaml, update docs
- Arch: Remove EmitOutputTo from emitResponse
- CL-1: go.work 1.19→1.21
- Docs: Add Mermaid architecture diagrams to README
- Docs: Add kernel-rebuild requires plugin-rebuild note to PLUGIN_DEV.md

.gitignore

@@ -3,7 +3,12 @@ waiter
 *.test
 build/
 *.so
-plugins/*/plugin.so
-
+*.db
+data/
 .tmp-plugins/
-qq
+.go/
+.local/
+internal/meta/
+internal/plugins/openclaw/manager/
+internal/plugins/openclaw/pysimulator/
+*.hmap